Unfortunately, political
discourse in our times has grown increasingly vitriolic, polemic, and divisive
along party lines. Sadly, we’ve embraced a social-media meme driven paradigm
that focuses on savaging the “other-side” without truly setting out the ideas
and policies that we believe will solve the problems we face. We regularly
denigrate anyone who does not agree with us, or our party, as an enemy of the
state, someone who wants to destroy our way of life. This constant barrage of attack-themed
information, devoid of any true policy plans, serves only to deepen the chasm
that separates us. We’ve forgotten that the “other-side” wants what they
believe is best for our nation, and perhaps more importantly, that we need two
strong political parties.
Historically speaking, our country
has functioned best when vigorous liberal and conservative parties engage in
developing and supporting well-reasoned policy goals which they forward in the
legislative process. Through the process of debate, restructuring, and at times
compromise, viable policy and law develops. Though it is messy and often
frustratingly slow, this process tends to deliver results which best serve the
entire body politic. Neither end of the political spectrum owns all the right
solutions. Sometimes the answers are found in conservative policy and at other
times the liberal view provides the needed solution. When both parties are
fully engaged in the process of legislation, we find better solutions.
Unfortunately, our current political discourse tends toward demonizing the
other side instead of thoughtful policy development and engagement.
We enjoy and encourage labeling those who
differ from us as haters of our country. After all, if I can label someone as
an enemy; then I do not need to listen to them and consider what they have to
say. We fling epithets and labels at each other without considering the
consequences. Rather than listen and build consensus, we push each other
further apart through thoughtless insults. True and active listening takes
effort and humility, since giving someone else’s ideas thoughtful and serious
consideration implies that we do not know it all.
While in the Army, I served with
a General Officer who frequently said, “I’m probably the dumbest person in the
room, but I recognize and surround myself with smart people and listen to
them.” Everyone chuckled when he said that; but, I knew the truth. He wasn’t
very smart at all. I was responsible for a software and hardware platform that
enabled senior decision makers to view the battlespace, make decisions, and
guide their subordinate units in execution. At least once a week, sometimes
more, he summoned me to his office to reteach him how to use the system. And,
he was open about his ineptness with automated systems. His strength lay in
recognizing an appropriate solution and motivating his subordinates in
executing his will. He was quite successful as a leader. His awareness of his
strengths and limitations enabled him to listen to others in humility. He truly
listened to me when I spoke. He owed much of his success to willingly listening
to others, no matter their background or proclivities. As a signal and
information operations officer, I found many in the combat arms community
dismissive and uninterested in my thoughts based simply on my background and
branch, but not this general. He kept completing the mission foremost in his
mind, not caring who provided the solution, only that the solution was found
and implemented.
We need to reinvigorate this
concept in our political discussions. Too many of us support the idea that all
things must go our way all the time. In our zeal for our party, we stymie
finding and implementing a viable solution. We elect and support members of
congress who rather than work to find solutions, acceptable to a majority, seek
to stop any progress. We need to develop the political maturity that recognizes
the compromise necessary for a nation as large and as diverse as ours. This
starts with how we speak to each other.
Those who differ from me are not
my enemies. They may pursue agendas and solutions to problems that I do not
embrace, but I must admit that they want to see a prosperous and successful
nation as much as I do. We need to stop talking about oppositional public
servants as if they were enemies of the state. When we succumb to the lure of
polemic meme oriented political speech, we make progress towards solutions more
difficult. The more we utilize speech that divides, the less likely we will
build the bridges necessary to work together to develop the solutions to the
problems that truly vex us. My fellow citizens of differing beliefs are not the
enemy. The true enemies we face are ignorance, bigotry, poverty, injustice,
oppression, and their brethren. As long as we categorize those of the
“other-side” as the enemy, we will fail to seriously confront those forces that
plague us, keeping us from reaching the full potential of the words that start out
constitution.
We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more
perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the
common defence, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of
Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this
Constitution for the United States of America.